I love you.....now what?

Well I herd on the radio today people telling stories about a time when they told someone that they loved them and the person said thank you in return and stories that were vice verse..
I have never been in the situation but I do know that I have done the one thing that you shouldn’t do, and that is say “I love you” back because you don’t want to hurt the other persons feelings. I am one of those people that likes everyone to be happy. I am the pleas-er. I want everyone to be happy and if someone is not I take it as my fault if I cant fix it. I don’t like people to suffer and be sad if I can help it. Of course there are those people that have done so wrong that I don’t feel bad for them to a point but at the same time I think that if someone is willing to try to be better and change their life then I don’t think I’m one to down that. With all that said I was sitting there listening to these people tell their stories of hearing the dreadful “Thank You” and I thought….whats better if the person doesn’t feel the same? “Thank you?” or nothing?
I personally with what I have experienced being the one to have the response it would have been so much better if I had said Thank you, instead of saying I love you back out of compassion. But I also do think that you can say something better than nothing and better than Thank you. You could explain where you are. I think that if the person is going to take the courage to put themselves out there then they at least deserve an explanation back. You should or they should at least tell them how they feel and where they are. I know that if i told someone that I love them and they weren’t ready to say it back I would like an explanation as to where they are. I think that it would be least a person could do.

Sincerely,
Danielle Stewart

Ugly Betty

I am not one to usually offended by what people say to me.... but I am no super hero either. I have feelings and they can get hurt. I can get sad if someone says something to me.

I have been in denial for tha past few months. I have realized that I am bigger than I think I am. I know that I gained wieght that I am bigger but I think that I am way bigger than I thought. i gave birth to a beautliful baby boy 7 months ago and I haven't lost all the weight yet. Now I see that I need to get movin. But I have recently been turned down by two different guys for being "too big". So I question the whole "Ugly Betty" thing. I mean is it really that easy? How do you let someone get to know you if they aren't physically attracted to you? Is that the whole purpose for online dating? Is that what they were thinking? letting people get to know the person for who they really are before they physically meet?

I am a believer of knowing the person on the inside. I believe that who a person is on the inside can change the apperance on the outside. I think that I have a good personality and that I am a good person...but hjow do I get someone else to see that if they cant even look at me?

Well I know that where I am, I am not healthy so Im going to change. But not for them....for me! Im not going to go crazy but Im going to open my eyes to what is going on with my body! I need to realize that I have to be healthy to be around longer. And I want to go shopping and not dread it! Im going to keep an update and I invite anyone wanting to loose 1-100 lbs, to join me!! We all know that nothing feels better than a goal reached! So lets give it a try. We only have this one life!! So lets get movin and live our life up!!

--Danielle Stewart

Who am I?

Who am I? Ill tell you!

I am strong, I am powerful I can make a difference.

I am beautiful inside and out.

I am a life giver, life learner and life lover.

I know my worth and I know yours.

I am sad, I am happy, I am grateful, I am lost, I am found.

I am who I am and I am proud of that. I can only control myself and no one else. I have endless possibilites and will forever be one who can have a choice. I will never regret the past and always look forwad to the future. Life is a gift and I will always treat it as so. I have been through my hard time and I only want to influence those going through thiers. I know my potential and I know yours. I am one of a billion and one in a billion. I am me. Not you or her or them, just me. Im goofy and playful. Im risky and dependable. I gave life in two ways. I gave life through birth and I have life to a family. I am a birth mother and proud to be. I stand tall and strong and no one will bring me down. my happiness depends on me and only me. I will not get down because if someone else. Others cnat control me, only influence me. I love to love and love to be loved. Forever will I strive to love others as I have been loved. Love is a lost art and I want to find it again.

Who am I? You'll see. I am me.

Danielle Stewart

First Day yesterday

So yesterday was my fist day on a new job. I have to say that usually a first day can be stressful and not always your favorite...but I have to say that mine was amazing!! I loved every second of it! I felt so welcome and loved there! I know that there is a lot to learn, but hey that is one of my favorite things to do! I mean life is all about learning and when I get a chance to learn something new I take the chance! I feel that the more that I can learn the more I can get out of life. So Im learning and growing. I believe that a person is always learning...why not learn what you love and what can only make you a better person. I love my new job...watch me grow!!!

First Day Yesterday

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